I've had time to think about why I broke up relationship with T.
The change of job, hence the necessity to move away from Besancon, can not really explain since I commuted every week-end, at my financial expenses, and remember enjoying it: I was going back home.
A little incident, the resulting silence and separation sufficed to put the 'relationship' into perspective: it was dead because I had figured out who T really was. This didn't make him any worse than he really is. It just gave him limits and, along with them, the end of surprise.
Isn't it terrible when one can tell exactly what and how and why the partner is going to say or react?
I know there are people in a long term relationship out there who certainly reached a moment in their life when they too could tell the what and how and why about their partner but with T it simply didn't look enticing.
Maybe I should tell him this (God help me find ways to diplomatically break it). I know from K&B he still has not really got over my … 'loss'.